” We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. ” Decleration of Indepence- 1776
It is funny that human beings always seek for happiness, but they are never totally happy. I dont know if its because of human metabolizm or mind, or if it is because that the world is really not the best place for a human being to be totally happy.
There are many kinds of happinesses, some short term, some long term.
I believe that a person should settle some things down in his life to be long term happy, such as a friendships, relationship, family and a quality life.
Because if one of those lack, every happiness is just like a piece of chocolate, it makes you happy for 10 minutes, then it fades away.
For me, it is the same case now. I am happy with my life, but there are still some things that i couldnt settle down in my life. And even though i have great things that makes me happy, such as a project that i write being accepted, or having a very good grade from an exam which will very positively affect my future, these things make me happy for some time, but then i forget about them. But i think, maybe i m not a grateful person as i should be.
I am a person who believes in God, and i think being a good person should be a person’s religion. And i always try to be grateful for what i have, and for the amazing things i have gone through in my life. I look at the people who is in a worse situation than me in life, and i feel grateful for mine. And when i look at people that are in a better status/sitatuion than me, i try to find things that they managed in life, and i couldnt so far.
I also have seen that there are some fundamental things in life that people generally should manage, such as balance, being positive, being grateful, being helpful and many other things.
But for me, what really counts is balance.
If you are too positive, you miss the realities of life. And if you are too negative, you miss the beauties of lie.
If you are too helpful, people will abuse you. If you are too selfish, you will not have any people around you at all.
If you love someone too much, its not good. If you love someone too less, its not good either.
Love someone enough… Enough to make this person happy, content and in love with you.
Everyone pursues happiness. Some cannot find it, some think they cannot find it and some think they find it. We can never know what makes a person happy, because there is no recipee for it, but there are some general things that should be in a persons life.
And its also about bringing all the little things in life. Small things, small gestures in life means a lot. A smile, a greeting, a hug, a kiss….
I think happiness is like a puzzle, it is a whole picture that makes it meaningful, but its the little pieces that brings it together. You just have to make the effort of finding the pieces and putting them alltogether.
Its the same thing with love, it is very important that you do small things to your loved one, to show how much you really care for that person. Dont live your love inside, and dont make a show out of it.
Make it a sacred feelings, but make sure the person you love knows it, making sure you got each other caught up in romantic moments. If you manage to do that, it means you have a big piece of the puzzle.
Then it’s love actually…
Sorry for writing too long, i dont think many people will read this. But it makes me feel good to write actually how i feel and think.
